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Preschooler * Toddler * Infant * Newborn * PregnancySunday, December 31, 2006
4 months, 3 days The newborn said goodbye to his first calendar year at the Trails of Redmond with a nice drink of mama milk, his brothers all around, and an early bedtime. It was a nice calm end to an exciting year.
Tuesday, December 26, 2006
3 months, 4 weeks, 2 days Cale is moving all over the place now. He's practicing to explore his new house in Bridle Trails. Griffin's getting nervous, since Cale can now get at all his new Christmas presents.
Wednesday, December 20, 2006
3 months, 3 weeks, 3 days The busy boy rolls over back to front.
Sunday, December 3, 2006
3 months, 1 week Cutie Cale has made up a peek-a-boo game. He talks to Alex and then buries his head in Jaime's chest before peeking out to see if Alex is still watching. Cale's also been doing some house hunting with the family. He's looking for a house with lots of lights on the ceiling, since he loves to stare at them.
Thursday, November 23, 2006
2 months, 3 weeks, 5 days Thanksgiving was lovely. Cale celebrated with Thanksgiving dinner at the top of the Space Needle, joined by his mom and dad, his brothers, Omi, G'pa, Unka Munca, Tata, Yulia, and Pax.
Monday, November 20, 2006
2 months, 3 weeks, 2 days Griffin, Cale, and Dillon are lucky to welcome Sheila into their lives. She came to help Mama out temporarily when Alex went back to work, and fit so well into the family that she's staying on as the children's nanny. Yay!
Saturday, November 4, 2006
2 months, 1 week Cale rolled over today! Dada starts work on Monday, leaving Mama to explore Seattle with her boys on her own for the next two months. Jaime starts work December 4, but will spend her first four weeks on maternity leave.
Tuesday, October 31, 2006
2 months, 3 days A trip to Cale's new doctor in Bellevue revealed he is healthy and weighs 12 lbs, 4 oz. Dillon, Cale, Mama, and Dada spent the evening dressed as flowers while honey bee Griffin trick or treated with his friend Sophia Butterfly.
Wednesday, October 25, 2006
1 month, 4 weeks, 6 days Cale laughs up a storm, and is very chatty.
Friday, October 13, 2006
1 month, 3 weeks, 1 day Cale and family have moved cross-country to the Seattle area. The trip went smoothly, and Cale is happily settling into his new digs.
While big brother Griffin had an imperious look when he was born, and twin brother Dillon looks around the world in wonder, Cale's look can best be described as a pirate look. After resting on Dad's shoulder, he'll look around with one eye closed and say, "Argh!"
Saturday, September 30, 2006
1 month, 2 days Cale opened his eyes this morning, gave Mom a big smile, and closed his eyes again contentedly.
Thursday, September 28, 2006
1 month Weight: 9lbs, 11oz.
Monday, September 25, 2006
4 weeks Poor Cale has a bit of a cold, but is holding up well despite a sniffly nose.
Tuesday, September 19, 2006
3 weeks, 1 day Jaime and Alex ventured out for their first restaurant meal with the twins. Both boys managed to wake at some point to nurse, but the meal passes quite enjoyably.
Friday, September 8, 2006
1 week, 4 days Cale's parents are starting to feel confident that they can tell their identical twin boys apart. Cale is somewhat chubbier than his brother and has long hair that sticks up. But he's still got two toenails painted green just in case they make a mistake!
Sunday, September 3, 2006
6 days Just hours after his brother loses his umbilical cord stump, Cale loses his. Both boys have been surprisingly concordant in everything they do -- from when they nap to when they wake at night to nurse. Makes things relatively easy for Mom and Dad.
Friday, September 1, 2006
4 days Cale's first doctor's appointment reveals he's almost back to his birth weight, at 7lbs, 4oz.
Monday, August 28, 2006
Cale Monroe Hehmeyer Teevan has arrived! Mom and baby are healthy and happy. Cale's identical twin brother, Dillon James Hehmeyer Teevan's Web site can be found here.
The story of Cale and Dillon's birth After 12 weeks of being in and out of the hospital for preterm labor, all the time terrified that their identical twin boys might be born early, it was a real change for Jaime and Alex when the boys hit 36 weeks and Mom and Dad no longer had to wish they'd stay put. In fact, despite reassurances to the contrary, Jaime was starting to worry instead that they'd never be born.
Sunday night Alex and Jaime were certain that the twins had at least another week of gestating ahead, even when Jaime woke up at 1am with frequent contractions. Frequent contractions were nothing new, but something about the quality of the contractions was different. So she got out of bed and started timing them while doing a little work on the computer. After two hours she decided to call her midwife, and the midwife suggested she come in to be checked out. Like they had done many times before in this pregnancy, Alex and Jaime called a friend to watch Griffin, grabbed Jaime's bag, and headed for the hospital.
Jaime's not entirely sure whether she knew her babies would be born soon at this point, or if she still thought it was preterm labor -- but she could no longer walk through her contractions, and scared Alex a little when she stopped for a minute in the middle of the street because she couldn't finish walking across until the contraction passed. An internal exam when they arrived at the hospital at 4am showed she was 5cm dilated, and definitely going to meet her boys soon.
Two hours later, Jaime's cervix was 7cm dilated, and by 8am she only had a thin rim of cervix left. The whole time she labored she was able to relax through the contractions, welcoming the progress they brought and enjoying the breaks between them. When birthing Griffin, dilating was the painful part; actually delivering him was oddly satisfying. Given she was basically fully dilated, she and Alex believed the mythical painless drug-free childbirth was within reach.
They were wrong.
It took her cervix the next two hours to dilate the remaining itty bit. The contractions were very intense, and she quickly got frustrated with them because she felt like she was no longer progressing. Alex recalls Jaime saying many times during these two hours, "I'm done." Jaime recalls just wanting to give up, stay pregnant, and go home. The midwife recalls Jaime responding to, "You're doing awesome," with, "I'm done being awesome." Jaime would have taken any drugs they wanted to offer her at that point, but her good midwife knew she really was almost done.
At 10am she was finally complete, but she still didn't feel the urge to push. Jaime consented to have her water broken because she was getting frustrated that things were moving so slowly. Five intense minutes later, Jaime and Alex's first boy was born, followed in two minutes by their second.
Those seven minutes were pretty crazy. A whole team of people who had been waiting outside flooded into the room for delivery -- joining the midwife, the nurse, and Alex was an OB, a pediatrician, several pediatric nurses, a medical student, and probably a few more people that went unnoticed.
It was a more medical birth than the parents had expected, especially given it was unmedicated. The babies heart rates were monitored continuously throughout the labor, which meant Jaime didn't get to walk around. Jaime didn't get to catch her babies like she had hoped, although during delivery she had no thoughts of catching them and just wanted them out. And even though both boys were big (7lbs, 6oz and 7lbs) and healthy (Apgar scores of 9 each), they were whisked to the warming table to be looked after immediately.
But nonetheless everything was perfect. Jaime was able to deliver vaginally without any pain medication, and the twins couldn't be healthier, despite being one day shy of full term (36 weeks and 6 days). Once the two of them were in Mom's arms, they didn't fuss at all. They just looked into her eyes and happily nuzzled at her breast. They still never cry, but rather alternate happily between quiet alert, asleep, and hungry. Jaime and Alex had thought tandem nursing would take weeks to figure out, but within minutes of holding them Jaime had them both nursing.
The meaning behind Cale and Dillon's names
Jaime and Alex chose the names Cale and Dillon for many reasons:
- Both names are ones that were on their short list for Griffin.
- Both names sound good with each other and with Griffin.
- Both names mean "loyal".
- Both names are Irish with Western US connotations.
The shared meaning is nice not only because it connects the boys' names with each other, but also because it connects them with Alex's family patriarch, Heman Dodge; Heman also shares the same meaning.
The names are both Irish, reflecting Jaime's Irish background. And as Alex and Jaime are both from the West Coast -- Alex's family for many generations -- they like that the names have a Western connection, too. Alex is actually related to a Dodge City sheriff from back in the "Wild West" days, so they think it particularly fun that Dillon is the name of Dodge City's marshal in Gunsmoke.
Each twin is also named after one of Jaime's parents. Dillon's middle name (James) is her father's name. Cale's middle name (Monroe) is her mother's maiden name, and his first initial is her mother's first initial. Because the twins have Jaime's last name, Cale's name ends up very similar to her mom's despite their first names being different.
It's kind of interesting that the boys' two middle names together make the name of a US president (James Monroe). That was not intentional. Jaime and Alex don't know much about James Monroe, except that he issued the Monroe Doctrine and that his presidency was considered the "Era of Good Feelings." Perhaps they'll try to learn a little more about him -- it would be fun if this ended up being another interesting connection. According to Wikipedia, Monroe's presidency was marked by a disappearance of partisan politics, and that's certainly something everyone probably wishes for at the moment!
Griffin was given the difficult responsibility of choosing which baby was given which name, and handled it beautifully, naming the first born Cale, and the second Dillon.
Mom and Dad keep track of who is who by painting Cale's toenail green, and wrapping both boys consistently in different colored blankets. But they think they're already getting a handle on being able to tell who is who just by looking at them.